At 21, Harry was one of the youngest helicopter pilots to serve in the Falklands War. Following two tours as a Royal Navy pilot, Harry moved to Asia in 1988 with his wife Kate to work in finance and start a family. Surviving a marital crisis, he sold his share of a successful partnership and returned to the UK in 1997. After acquiring a 1st class degree in Psychology from Bristol University, he started what has become Britain’s most successful local relationship project, Bristol Community Family Trust, teaching practical relationship skills to thousands of couples. He has now been married 25 years and has six children. Harry is currently the Research Director at the Marriage Foundation.
He wrote What Mums Want And Dads Need To Know, co-authored with his wife Kate, that reached number 11 on Amazon UK (Lion Books, 2017), Commit or Quit – The Two Year Rule and Other Rules for Romance (Lion Books, 2020), Let’s Stick Together: The Relationship Book For New Parents (2013), as well as Scram!: The Gripping First-hand Account of the Helicopter War in the Falklands (2012).




